【爸妈有话说:那对夫妻】从小受媒体关注,对妮妮来说是好事吗?什么是“妮妮条款”?

 

2015 年,Kim与Nico 开设「那对夫妻」粉丝团,藉社群网站分享夫妻之间的日常,以及与超萌女儿妮妮的甜蜜互动,至今已累计了250万的追踪人数,成了新时代的“网路红人”。他们从妮妮还小就开始在网上分享影片,满满通很荣幸能跟与Kim与Nico交流,更了解他们的育儿经与教育理念。

 

 

>> 为什么想在网上分享妮妮的生活?Why did you start sharing about Nini on online?

其实就跟一般的父母亲一样,想要记录孩子的成长,跟最可爱的每一个时刻。所以当然会用影片、照片来记录很多上辈子情人的记录。

Actually like all other parents, we want to record the growing of our child and every single cute moment of her. That’s why we use videos and photos to record my previous life’s lover.

 

>> 妮妮那么小就受媒体关注,有什么正面和负面的影响?Being in the limelight of media since young, are there any positive/ negative impacts on Nini?

我们放的地方是社群,像每个人都有的脸书平台。所以并没有让她参与非常多的媒体曝光,比如说电视、广告、节目,或这样的访谈。 妮妮还是维持跟一般孩子一样的成长。例如说,像我刚才看到很多朋友的小孩,说他们在录抖音。所以其实现在的社群跟这些平台,是每一个家长都会使用的,并不是只有公众人物才会去用这些平台。所以,我觉得我还是会教导她,完整地过好她自己快乐的童年比较重要,她不会把自己当成一个任何一个人物,她就是妮妮!

We’re putting the content on social media, such as Facebook which is accessible to all. We don’t really let her be exposed to the media like TV shows, commercials, programmes or interviews like this. Therefore, Nini still grows up like any other kid. For instance, a lot of my friends’ kids are recording Tiktok videos. So besides public figures, almost all parents are using these social media platforms. So I’ll still teach her to live her life wholeheartedly, to have a happy childhood. This is more important. She won’t treat herself as some kind of celebrity. She’s just Nini.

 

>> 什么是妮妮条款?What is The Nini Rule?

因为这个工作,我们常常需要有一些代言、活动还有广告。我们都是以夫妻为主。妮妮条款的意思就是,这个工作跟妮妮无关,所以妮妮可以选择自主性地参与或者不参与。所以今天如果她不想参与,或不想讲什么话,完全尊重她自己,因为工作是父母的,妮妮就是一个小孩。

Due to the nature of our job, we always need to go for endorsements, events, or appear in commercials. In this job, we always work as a couple. The Nini Rule means that, if Nini is not involved in the job, she can choose on her own whether she wants to join. If today she decides not to join or not to talk, we totally respect her. Because this is our job, Nini is only a kid.

 

>> 如果妮妮做错事,会採取什麼樣的管教方式?If Nini were to do something wrong, what would you do?

基本上,我觉得小孩做错事情的话,你要看事情本身,而不是每一次都一套方式。你要不断地去改变跟进步,随着小孩子的年龄成长,那这个东西没办法教给大家,因为每一个人的小孩跟个性不同,要父母亲自己真的去体会,只有你自己最了解自己的小孩。我只能给大家一个关键,花时间多陪伴你的小孩,你就会懂什么方式对他是最好的。

Basically I feel that when kids do something wrong, you need to look at the matter itself, and not to use the same method every time. You have to keep changing and improving. As your child grows older, you need to find the correct method to teach your child. But we can’t tell you exactly how to do it because all kids and their characters are different. We as parents need to understand our kids. Only you understand your child the most. I can only share with you one key point, spend time with your kid and you will know what works best for him/her.